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Partners & support people are the closest witnesses to the emotional, physical, and identity shifts happening during matrescence, yet many say they feel unsure of what’s normal, what’s needed, or how to help. And from the birthing parent/moms’ point of view, even when we’re in the thick of it, it’s hard to explain to our people what we’re going through and how they can help. But, when partners learn a little more about what’s going on during the postpartum phase, and what matrescence actually is, support becomes more intentional, communication gets easier, and the whole family benefits. So this one is something to share with the partners…

Postpartum mental health challenges do not always look the way we expect, and they can affect anyone, regardless of how together things appear on the outside. Feeling this way does not mean you are weak or failing. It means you are human, navigating one of life’s most profound transitions. Support can make a meaningful difference.

Starting your baby on solids is a big milestone! It’s exciting to imagine your baby tasting new flavours, exploring textures, and joining you at the family table. And if you found bottle or breastfeeding challenging, it can be a much anticipated new phase of feeding. But if you’ve been scrolling through social media or reading parenting forums, you might also feel overwhelmed by conflicting advice.

Motherhood is one of life’s most profound transformations. Yet the traditional baby shower rarely acknowledges that. Maybe this is why so many moms struggle in their matrescence… we’re left blindsided by the realities of life postpartum. What if we could do more to support new moms? It’s time for a cultural reset.